Ep 2 - "Scene Negotiations for Safety and Profit(?)" with JustRob
Negotiations make up the backbone of your scene. This presentation will cover the why and how of one of the most important parts of the BDSM community, as well as, discuss techniques and address questions for negotiating varied types of scenes including; heavy impact, blood play, edge play, and more!
JustRob (He/Him) has been active in the community since 2008. He identifies primarily as a Top and a Leatherman, but on occasion takes on the roles of Sadist, Dominant, Leader, Mentor, and Teacher. He is especially passionate about and active in the local polyamory group. His areas of experience are primarily in; impact play (everything from fists and palms to whips and everything in between), electricity (specifically the violet wand), and medical play (focused on play piercing and staples), in general, he is a reaction junkie who craves blood and other bodily fluids. Overall, however, his passion is helping people find their way in this lifestyle and helping those who have already found it to navigate it safely and grow personally.
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