How to Parent Peacefully. With the Hand in Hand Parenting approach.
Kids & Family:Parenting
#061 Three big reasons you get angry - and none of them are your fault
In this week’s episode I talk about why parenting is so hard in this modern world we live in and the three biggest reasons why I believe we get angry and lose it with our kids.
When we are feeling calm, patient and well-resourced, when all our needs are taken care of, when we have no worries, we have no stresses, at those times parenting is easy.
We know how to be loving, kind, respectful and patient towards our kids.
We can take the time to listen to them. We can see things from their side. We can be deeply empathic of their experience - and of course when we are in that place, parenting goes really well.
So our number one mission as parents is to take care of ourselves, make sure our needs are met, make sure we are well resourced and our nervous systems are feeling calm and regulated so we can take care of our children.
The thing is that there is a lot that gets in the way of that.
So today in the podcast I talk about the three biggest reasons we get angry with our kids.
When we see parenting with these reasons in mind, we can be more compassionate with ourselves and we can start to take action to be able to show up and parent with patience and empathy.
If you would love to learn how to bring these ideas into your parenting to making a lasting shift in your child's behaviour and your relationship with them, I am launching my new course very soon "The Shouting Solution: how to stay calm in the chaos so you can parent peacefully". Stay tuned for more info coming very soon.
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