Your take clarified for me what bothered me about Robyn- her expectation that she would immediately have all the benefits the previous 3 wives without putting in the time and effort they did. And how that disappointment changed her view of the family- from one she desperately wanted to be wholly included in to one who victimized and tricked her and and children.

Notice how Robin says. ” I feel sparkly” about Truly being born. Again making it about her.