It would seem to me that if there was a life insurance policy and his girlfriend was a beneficiary, the insurance company would cut a check to her and it wouldn’t be up to her father-in-law to give her the proceeds.

Dr. John Deloney, you’re changing lives daily.

Not sure if anyone reads these, but in the episode, I just listened to the woman being married for almost 30 years and has no sexual desires towards her husband... I felt every bit of this. It could have been me on the phone. Do you ever do follow up with them to see what the outcome was?

Crying over that second one… Me, too… Childhood trauma survivor, and I didn’t think the words in my mouth were even worth being spoken. I literally went mute for a while… I didn’t believe I was worth anything. To this isolated, abuse survivor, it gets better. It gets easier to realize you’re safe when you don’t FEEL safe in your body. I couldn’t be touched by even my own children without having a panic attack. And now people can hug me, even sometimes without warning, and I don’t flinch.

I leave exhausted nearly every EMDR session as if I ran a marathon. And often have residual feelings, memories, and panic from the memories we work through.

I have been doing EMDR as a wife with my therapist for several years now. I have CPTSD, so keep in mind the scale of my traumas is probably more than three average person.

My MIL has a joint account but he only knows what his half of the totals are. She randomly has SOME money in there, AND she keeps a safe one of her own as the main breadwinner and payor of bills. An uncontrolled man is dangerous.

thanks for the wisdom.

This lady will never see her grandchildren again.... I think confronting her will backfire

I tried to get involved when my son in law told my 12 year old granddaughter she should have never been born into their family and she heard it to mean he wished she was dead. I was banned from their family and this past fall she tried to end her life. Yelling and name calling is so bad.

Re the last caller, she sounds like she’s exhausted and needs a break before she can even contemplate visiting her husband.

I thx for having these pods!

I cried a whole summer (32yo) grieving my mom wont respect or love me. That summer my eyes hurt for 3 months and I used sunglasses a lot.

Delany sets the conversation up expertly. I love that he nails him.

The clutter is the engine light. ❤

Much needed clarity and truth to the root of the problems! As always, so thankful hear the podcast.

I love this Show!!!!

thanks for your show

I’m learning SO MUCH from ur Podcast Thank U Dr. John

Loved today’s episode