Real Man Revolution

If you find yourself in the ironic position of having delivered the spoils of a successful career to the feet of your Queen -- and what that looks like is a lifestyle that most women could only ever dream about -- yet, your wife tells you that she’s not happy... and the lifestyle you’ve worked so hard for is not enough... If in your heart you know you’re a good man... a Christian believer, who loves his wife and hasn’t done anything really terrible to her... it’s just that for whatever reason... the love you feel inside -- no matter how much you want her to see it, and feel it -- seems locked inside you... and it is not resonating with her... And you understand that all of your business success is worthless without the love of your life to share it with -- but also that with her in your corner... what you’ve built in your high-achieving, successful, professional career life has the potential to create a lifestyle that is exactly what you dream of creating... with a loving, comforting, appreciative, supportive, respectful, and playful partner... what that looks like for you, for her, for your kids, and for what you want to give back to others? Is the Have It All Life. Well, my brother. You’re in the right place. In this pod-cast... which you’ll often hear me refer to as Bob-Cast, and The Book of Bob... I detail my own journey... of building a big, global business... that has touched every single person in the U.S. and most people in the world... And how, looking back, there was a clear relationship showing that the more successful I became in business, the less successful I became in marriage... resulting in the two of us sharing tremendous financial success... AND... a very miserable marriage... And more importantly how I fixed it. So if you’ve ever wondered... ”How can a man have a big business that matters... and a big marriage and family life that makes everything worth it... all at the same time... in a way that he creates synergy... such that the better his business gets, the easier and happier his marriage gets... and the easier and happier his marriage gets... the better his business gets... then, my brother... this.is. for. you.W Welcome to the Have It All Marriage for the Have It All Life.

Lead your wife. Makes sense, right? Want a different experience in your marriage? Get your wife to give you different experiences. Influence and motivate her to do that. Not in a manipulative way, but rather in a way that ministers. But to be true to this, you must be in a place where you can consistently give her different (increasingly better) experiences. Here’s a secret brother. You are always leading her whether you know it or not. And you have led her to a place where she gives you unhappy experiences. And you have blamed her. You have shamed her. You have deflected responsibility for this unhappy marriage to her. You have defended yourself despite the fact that, you have led her to this reality. Want to fix it? Lead her on purpose, by getting there first and attracting her into the space of being able to provide increasingly better experiences for a spouse. The sad thing is... most men get stuck in blaming, shaming, defending, and deflecting until they get on the phone with me or one of my coaches -- desperate for help to try to avoid a devastating divorce. The get on the phone with me because I’ve helped thousands of men to turn their failing marriage around... to create the Have It All Marriage... a marriage that empowers them to achieve everything they want in life.... even if she is refusing to talk, has moved out, or is filing divorce papers when he gets on the phone with me. And the way that I do this, is I teach them to lead their wife from a place of being a Real Man. Real men take radical responsibility and extreme ownership over all the results in their life. Any man who has achieved any level of success works hard to get better at the how every day. Any man who has achieved any level of success works hard to get more clear on the why ever day. But what men are not taught is the what and the how and the why will never get him the results he desires unless he becomes the ’who’ -- a man who gets real about where he is leading himself and his wife. Until he understands that he, himself, is what is holding him back, he is a blamer... a shamer... a deflector... and a defender... and he is his own biggest obstacle. And sadly, while he, himself, pays a steep price for this posing, ultimately it’s his wife and his kids who pay the most. What is now necessary, is for strong men to rise up and refuse to pose, but instead take ownership of their own weakness, transcend it, and lead. What is now necessary is a revolution of fake, posing men, one man at a time, from the inside out. Each man who has been taught to be fake and to pose from a very young age, by a society that is designed to keep men down on purpose... must rise. Each man must rise to become the man WHO can transcend the blame, the shame, the defense, and the deflection... and to deal with the real. And this is impossible for a man operating alone. And because men are taught by this society to operate alone, they are being held down while believing they are a victim of their wife, their kids, their job, their business, the marketplace, or any number of things outside of their control. Yet the man who joins a brotherhood, joins a revolution, a movement, where he is no longer operating alone; but rather, inside of a group of men who live differently... a group of men who hold themselves accountable to lead their wife, by first learning how to lead themself... that man begins to rise... and to deliver a consistent level of increasingly better experiences to his wife, his kids, his clients, and his Creator. I’m Bob Gerace, and I call this brotherhood: The Real Man Revolution. Join us, brother. We’re changing the world, one man at a time from the inside out.