Growing up in the crack epidemic surrounded by gangs, drugs, and violence a man begins repeating these patterns of abuse and infidelity in his relationships, but after a family tragedy, he finds a new path, opening his marriage and his heart.
Today’s episode featured Adrian McCoy.
This episode is the third of a six-part miniseries called the 82 Percent: Modern stories of love and family, produced in collaboration with the Modern Family Institute @modernfamilyinstitute. If you’d like to find out more about the Modern Family Institute, donate to help advance their work, or get engaged, please visit their website, modernfamilyinstitute.org.
Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz
Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic violence, gang violence, gun violence, abuse, murder, drug addiction, sexual themes, explicit language
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Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper
Music Bed: “Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere
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327: The 82 Percent #4: What if you found your family on the path of celibacy?
325: The 82 Percent: Bonus Conversation with Jessica Fern
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323: What if you were suddenly a blank slate?
322: What if you kept hitting rock bottom?
321: What if they tried to erase you?
320: What if your mom believed she was the good witch?
319: What if you couldn’t find your way home?
318: What if your daughter went missing?
317: What if you found peace in the fog of war?
316: What if a masked man appeared at the foot of your bed?
315: What if your life became a movie?
314: What if you harbored an unrelenting fury?
313: What if you had to find your own salvation?
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