Sex Q&A: Anal, Hot-Wifing, Sexless Marriages & Much More

Jess and Brandon answer your questions: Is it normal to want your wife to be a hot-wife? Should I use an enema before anal? What should I do if I can’t get it in? Can a sexless marriage work? Can a couple really recover after cheating? How do I know if I should call it quits on a relationship? And many, many more. Please see a rough list of the questions below. This is Part 2 of Jess & Brandon's rapid fire round of 100 questions! 39. Is there really a way to move past a cheating partner? 40. How can you introduce comprise to a partner who always believes their way is the right away? 41. How do you know enough is enough and you’re just running your own race? 42. Can a man’s semen stink if they drink beer? Is there something that causes women to have a funny smell? 43. How tall are you? 44. How do you get brave enough to try new things in the bedroom? 45. Can a sex life still be healthy if it is quick under 15 minutes all the time? 46. How can you tell if your husband’s sex drive is going down? 47. Is going to bed at the same time good for a relationship? 48. Can working out boost your sex drive? How about working out together? 49. How long is too long to not have sex? 50. How tall are you Brandon? 51. Brandon, what’s the hardest part about being married to a sexologist? I’m getting married and going into the field… 52. How to deal with a jealous colleague? 53. What’s your favourite position? 54. How old are you both? 55. How do you know when your partner is into roleplay? 56. How do we get out of a sex rut? We like sex, we’re just not in the mood for it. 57. What’s a good resource for talking to my 9 ½ year old about sex? 58. Is it normal to want your wife to be a hot-wife? 59. How does a senior keep up with younger partners in bed? 60. You’ve travelled everywhere, what’s your favourite place to visit? 61. Was Brandon in the Woody’s ads? 62. I met a great guy online, we’ve been on a few dates and he’s really nice to me. But, he’s rude to the waiters and the people behind the counter at the coffee shop. How do I react? 63. Where do you take all those photos in Jamaica on the paddleboards? 64. Should the guy still pay on the first date? 65. Can a sexless marriage work? I’m a lesbian girl. My girlfriend and I tend to have anal love making for the first time. Although we are both STI free, we are afraid of any other disease that may be created from contacting each other’s anus’. So here are our inquiries… 66. What are the hygienic procedures that should be done before anal sex? 67. Should we evacuate our bowels right before the encounter? 68. My partner suggests an enema before we start, is that a must? 69. I suggest we can use hand sanitizer or wet wipes to clean the anus hole area around and inside, is that okay? 70. Should we defecate after anal? 71. Will our posterior holes remain wide or will they be wider when practicing anal play? If the answer is yes, how do we avoid it? 72. Could she kiss me or I kiss her deeply in the mouth after analingus? 73. Can we use whip cream or yogurt inside the anus hole the same way we would lick ice cream? 74. How far should we go inside (the anus) with my fingers, tongue or toys? 75. Can we do it vaginally if we do it anally, and which one should come first? 76. Do we need to tell our gynaecologists? 77. What if we can’t get it in the hole? This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.