Roy was married 25 years with 5 kids. And they had a good marriage.
They love the Lord and seek to serve Him with all.
Intimacy was tough though.
And every time he brought it up, she would get defensive, or feel like she wasn't good enough, or like he'll never be satisfied.
Anyone else feel that way?
He had heard about Masculinity Reclaimed for a couple of years and finally decided it was time.
He kept hitting a wall.
And if you're in that place, I want you to know...
It's legitimate that issues around intimacy hurt.
They hurt deeply.
But Roy got to a place where trying to change her wasn't working.
And so, he decided it was time to look at himself.
He knew going into the program if he let his wife know, in the beginning, she would put many, many more walls up...
So, he decided to go forward without her knowing. Because, as he said, this was a coaching program FOR HIM.
He had to talk to someone.
It was either therapy or a coaching program.
(And he said she doesn't really like therapy either).
Anyway... that's where things started.
But, in 12 weeks, God did something amazing.
If you're a man looking/grasping for hope and/or you want the tools for changing your marriage, I invite you to listen.
If you're a woman who will listen with a curious heart to find out how men really feel about intimacy, I invite you to listen.
Love & Blessings,
Belah
PS - Would you like to work on your side of your marriage? I invite you to sign up for a free Clarity Call here at delightyourmarriage.com/cc.
PPS - How healthy is your marriage, really? Take the free Marital Health Assessment here! delightyourmarriage.com/health
Quote from a Masculinity Reclaimed Graduate:
"I've learned so much, your course helped me figure out so many things I've been struggling with in my life and I've really been able to make sense of pain and emotions that I haven't figured out until now.
There are many more great things that have come from doing your course!"
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134-Loving Through Health Challenges. Interview with Julie Dibble, Part 1
133-Orgasm--Encouragement For The PreOrgasmic Wife. Interview with Bonny Burns
132-The Most Important Part Of Amazing Intimacy
131-Husbands: How To Make Love To Your Wife. Interview with Ruth Buezis
130-Healing A Marriage From Porn Addiction. Interview with Lynn Marie Cherry, Part 2
129-Healing A Marriage From Porn Addiction. Interview with Lynn Marie Cherry, Part 1
128-Orgasm--Focus On Your Body. Interview with Keelie Reason
127-Marriage: To Be Holy (Not Just Happy). Interview with Kim Olachea, Part 2
126-Marriage With Disabilities. Interview with Kim Olachea, Part 1
125-Orgasm--Redefine Your Expectations. Interview with Sandra Glahn
124-Hope In The Storm
123-God Can Heal Your Marriage. Interview with Penny Bragg
122-Connecting for Better Intimacy. Interview with Bethany Riechmann, Part 2
121-Connecting for Better Intimacy. Interview with Bethany Riechmann, Part 1
120-Orgasm--Learn to Enjoy This Gift with Julie Sibert
119-When You Don't Want To Have Sex
118-Why We Control. Interview with Sherry Jennings, Part 2
117-Your Mission As a Wife. Interview with Sherry Jennings, Part 1
116-Loving In Light Of Eternity. Interview with Kimberly Rae
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