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There are lots of books out there about how to survive when you’ve been cheated on. But our guest in this episode, Dr. Deborah Miller, has written one for the cheater, called More Than Sorry: 5 Steps to Deepen Your Apology After You Have Committed Infidelity. We talk about how someone who has cheated can do the inner work they need to be able to offer a genuine apology, forgive themselves, and be available to help their relationship heal, whether or not they stay together.
Dr. Miller’s website is https://drdebmiller.com.
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Holiday Special: The Perfect Gift for Your Relationship - Episode 21
How Do I Know When to Call It Quits? - Episode 20
I Found Out My Partner Has Been Unfaithful--Now What? - Episode 19
Healing a Nation in Seven Words - Episode 18
Fault Lines: An Interview with Dr. Karl Pillemer - Episode 17
Sex, Good Sex, and Sacred Sex - Episode 16
Why Get Married? An Interview with Rabbi Michael Cohen and Alison Hill - Episode 15
After the Affair - An Interview with Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring - Episode 14
Teshuvah, Faith, and Forgiveness - Special for the Month of Elul - Episode 13
Three Kinds of Faith - Episode 12
Life Coaches in a Long, Happy Marriage: An Interview with Susan and Bob Epstein - Episode 11
An Interracial and Intercultural Jewish Couple in Vermont -Barbra and Doug Marden - Episode 10
Empowerment Self Defense and Trauma: An Interview with Dr. Christine DiBlasio - Episode 9
What is Faith? Episode 8
Getting Hold of Yourself - Episode 7
Trauma and Relationships: An Interview with Rabbi David Edleson - Episode 6
Passion and Sex: An Interview with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus - Episode 5
Panic and Its Effects (Good and Bad) - Episode 4
The Two Golden Gifts - Episode 3
I Am My Beloved's And My Beloved Is Mine - Episode 2
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