Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson each grew up in the world of fundamentalist evangelical Christianity, and they each independently became sex therapists and left the fundamentalist culture. They specialize in helping couples with negative religious backgrounds discover sexuality that works for their partnership. We talk about their work, and pose a listener question right out of Bruce's latest book: how can the listener reconcile his lifelong attraction to men with his personal, marriage, and family ties to his evangelical church?
Their website is https://www.sexvangelicals.com.
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Music: Besamim (Spices) by Bruce Chalmer, performed by Fyre and Lightning Consort
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I Can’t Stand My Husband’s Family. What Do I Do About Thanksgiving? Episode 53
Faith and Relationships: An Interview with Rabbi and Couples Therapist David Fredman - Episode 52
My Husband Complains About My Cleaning. Is It About Communication? Episode 51
”Scenes from a Marriage”: Whoa, How About Those First Three Episodes! Episode 50
Your Money and Your Relationship: An Interview with Natalie and Dan Slagle - Episode 49
Maybe It Is About Communication After All! Episode 48
My Partner‘s Sexual Demands are Driving Me Nuts! Episode 47
Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong! Episode 46
Five Ridiculous Rules for Communicating with Your Partner - Episode 45
I Watch Porn. Do I Need to Tell My Partner? Episode 44
Communication, Sex, Intimacy--We're Live! Episode 43
Beshert: Our Own Love Story - Episode 42
Sex Points: An Interview with Author and Sex Therapist Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus - Episode 41
Humor, Improv, and Relationships: An Interview with Izzy Gesell - Episode 40
I Had An Affair. Am I a Total Screw-Up? Episode 39
My Mother-in-Law is Crazy! Episode 38
Getting the Juices Flowing - An Interview with Sex Advisor Susan Bratton - Episode 37
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