A Conversation with Laura Tremaine + Taking Self-Care to the Next Level : Selfie Podcast Episode 158

We’re talking mom-shame, life on the internet, writing, and more with our friend Laura Tremaine, author of the new book Share Your Stuff: I’ll Go First. Kristen and BJ also chat about what a deeper shift in soul-care looks like (hint: it’s not bath bombs.) In this episode we also talk about: Imperfect Foods Produce Delivery Thistle Meal Delivery Amazon Subscribe + Save Pantry Goods Charitea Berry Fields Forever Yoassi 2 Pack 18/8 Stainless Steel Tea Infuser Mesh Strainer SYLVECO Body Care for Sensitive Skin OUAI hair oil Etsy chore cards Ana Luisa is a jewelry company with amazing design, as well as a sustainable mission. In addition to making beautiful earrings, necklaces and bracelets, their company offsets 100% of their carbon emissions, starting with the sourcing of their raw materials. They are also committed to quality, with long-pasting pieces created from high-quality metals, and a 365-day warranty to back it up, with fair prices starting at $39. These pieces are a fantastic gift for yourself and the ones you love. Ana Luisa is offering 15% off all products leading up to Valentine’s Day! Check out analuisa.com. Last day to guarantee US standard shipping before V-Day is FEBRUARY 10.   BJ’s GROUNDING EXERCISE It's preferable to do this with bare feet in grass or dirt, but not necessary. If possible, take off your shoes, even if it's inside. * Stand with feet shoulder width apart, arms relaxed at your sides. * Be sure feet are comfortably positioned on the ground. * Posture should be aligned but relaxed. * Shake out your arms and roll your head slowly for a few moments to feel your body relax and release any excess energy. * Begin to "roll" your feet on the ground until every part of the surface of your feet has touched the ground, including the arch and the base of your toes (spreading the toes and pressing them down helps with this). * Once you've completed that, find the most comfortable position on the ground for your feet. * Begin to sway side to side then front to back slowly for about 30-60 seconds, or as long as you'd like. * Raise your arms up over your head, inhaling as you go and stretching your body to its fullest length. * As you exhale, lower your arms out to the side then continue down, bending to touch your toes. * Repeat this motion as many times as you'd like until the body feels fully relaxed. * Now extending the forearms from your sides forward, elbows snug but relaxed against your sides, with palms turned upward, relax into your feet. * You may stand still or sway side to side, whatever feels most comfortable to you. * At this point, your body should begin to feel heavy, and you should feel a sensation of being "pulled" through your feet into the earth. * Stay in this position for as long as you like.  EXPRESSIVE WRITING PROTOCOL To start, in a few words, write down what you are feeling.  * Then with a scale of 1-10, rate how positive you feel with 1 being not at all positive and 10 very positive.  * Now do the same with any negativity you feel. 1 is not negative at all, 10 is very negative.  * Then rate how meaningful life feels to you right now with 1 being not at all meaningful and 10 very meaningful.  * Now write for 10 minutes about anything that is bothering you.