The Black BBW, Curvy, Thick, Fat, Big Girl, are we only attractive to Black Men?

The question remains as I read on the message boards of BBW Black women admitting hey I am attracted to other race of men but I’m not what they’re looking for. It’s not a self esteem issue for me because I’ve literally put myself out there and the stories I have based on my experiences oooooo child that’s a book! Therefore if we are open to dating outside of our race, our preferences are in variety why is it that we don’t see more interracial relationships within our circles? Believe me it’s not us…Especially when Today the perfect butt and shape by society’s standards aren’t curvy, aren’t thick, aren’t BBWs and aren’t Black! This same society is predominantly white… white males. I see 88% of them on every dating site that’s not a Black Singles Meet community. Yet they aren’t looking for Black women especially not BBWs. Most will put that disclaimer into their profiles now because of the number of Black women beginning to step out of their boxes labeled - for Black Men only. When I look around we are single because we’re still in that box and or stepping out with no one there to greet us. Tell me what you think? If you’re listening on Spotify answer the question…, let’s discuss this.