Divorce Devil Podcast 054: During and After Divorce - Why Do We Hang On So Long Even Though It Is Long Gone? Facebook Divorce Groups.

It’s kind of ironic that Rachel and I both belong to female and male Divorce Facebook Groups respectively.  We discuss seeing some of the identical posts from both groups.  It shows the pain and hurt from divorce is real.  Hanging on even after the divorce is over and actually caring what they are doing with their lives - i.e. who they are dating, what friends they got in the end, and so on.   We decided that both men and women need to own their shit if they are the ones cheating in the marriage thus causing the divorce. .   One isn’t less than the other and they both are wrong.  With that said, they still need healing too, but is it in our respective Facebook Groups?  That’s a hard question.  Topics of hard to change, seeing your value without your ex, Hawaii Five-O Hoe, cobwebs, kids already know, it’s a death, and calm the crazy are dropped into this podcast.  We agree that failure is necessary for healing and moving on.  It’s almost realizing a few steps back is necessary for a leap forward.  We’ll see how each of the Facebook Groups responds to this podcast.  Interesting.  Enjoy.