If you want to create something different - if you want the world to stop measuring - you need to be in the world differently and ironically I'm going to talk about the only part of a book I don't agree with .. participation... It's ok to not belong in the room.
Two books I want to recommend you read
One I have shared in the past:
Belonging: From Fear to Freedom on the Path to True Community
by Angel Kyodo Williams
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/55384181-belonging
The one I speak about in this podcast:
Teaching to Transgress: Education as the Practice of Freedom
Bell Hooks
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27091.Teaching_to_Transgress?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=L56PmXwplB&rank=4
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