Episode 220: ‘The First Taboo’ (Wonder Dave)

Wanna know the secret to great - and sex-positive - parenting? Comedian, writer, and performer Wonder Dave tells us how his parents got it right by slipping him quality learning materials early on, and how he shared his newfound knowledge with his best friend Nate. 2 teenage boys on a sleepover, what could go wrong? Well for starters, they could establish good ground rules like no slut-shaming, discover how to clearly communicate their needs and feelings, and determine the importance of a high thread count. Hey, does that feel a little ‘toothy’ to you? #Discovery #Masturbation #BoysAndSex

 

Song: ‘Passionate’ (Backstreet Boys)

About the storyteller:

 

Wonder Dave is a comedian, writer, performer and swell human being. He is the co-creator of the Mental Health Comedy Hour, a show where comedians tell jokes and talk about mental health. Dave is a pro wrestling commentator for Hoodslam and co-host of the Oakland variety show The Ruckus and Rumpus Revival. 

 

Find him online at WonderDave.org  

And for all the social media links in one place, visit https://linktr.ee/wonderdave

 

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Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

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Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

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