F*ck Them Until You Change Them

I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex.

It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from.

This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body.

And so are the bad ones.

It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them.

As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open.

To penetrate them (man or woman) so deeply, that they forget who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.

F*ck them until you change them.

If you've finished making love with your partner and they aren't glowing, if they aren't looking at you like you are some kind of messiah god (does this seem lofty? I promise you it isn't), then you have further to go.

My big, barometric question is always: Does sex leave you feeling rejuvenated, energized, transformed, ecstatic and fuck-changed?

If not, you are doing it wrong.

My work is all about showing you how to do it right.

Of all the years—about 30—and all the different therapies—a shit ton—that I've experimented with over the years, none have changed me so quickly, so profoundly and so permanently as really. good. f*cking.

The kind of f*cking that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.

To help create the kind of f*cking that changes you, listen to today’s episode.

In the Coming Together Salon, it’s all about the art of the Phoenix f-ck change. 
 
 How to have the kind of sex that changes your life. 
 
 The kind that brings you daily, good-f**k medicine, wildly ecstatic orgasms, a deeper connection than you ever thought possible, both with yourself and your partner, 

In the salon, we touch on every aspect I’ve covered in today’s episode including: 

• Guided, step-by-step lingam and yoni massage 
• Clarity and communication techniques 
• How to build stamina and become a marathon fucker for men
• How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women 
• My secrets to marathon sex and getting high via your 3-hour sex dates. 
• And much more! 

To check out the free preview video series for the salon and to signup, go to: 

https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/