Emotional Seduction: The Core Erotic Feeling

How do you need to feel in order to get in the mood for sex? Relaxed? Loved? Safe? Desired? Your core erotic feeling (CEF) is the feeling you require in order to get in the mood for sex, and it can revolutionize the way you approach pleasure, seduction, and sex. If you or a partner; have trouble getting in the mood, or if you find that erotic touch often isn’t enough - this episode will help you better understand the emotional-erotic connection, so you can have all the hot sex you desire. Once again, thank you to our amazing sponsors AdamAndEve.com. — they've extended my code DRJESS where you can save 50% off almost any item + get FREE gifts & shipping. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Emotional Seduction: The Core Erotic Feeling Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your cohost, Brad Brandon. We are here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess. Hey, I'm excited for the topic today. Amazing. We are talking the erotic emotional connection. We're going to be talking about your core erotic feeling. And to me, this is the most interesting, meaningful, impactful piece around sex. Because I've said this before, and I'll say it again, every human experience is emotional. Every experience, every interaction, every transaction, every conversation, everything intimate, anything that involves a human being is an emotional experience. Right. We see this in business all the time, where if you make someone feel important, if you make someone feel valued, if you make someone feel as though they're a part of something. Right. That buzzword of community, everybody's always, you know, all the brands are talking about creating a community in order to sell you things. When you make people feel something that they want to feel, they want more of you. So that could be super simple, like going into a restaurant and being treated like you belong there. Right. Being treated like a regular, being told, welcome back. Being prioritized in some way, it makes you want more and more of that. Similarly, when brands effectively create communities online where you feel like you're a part of a social movement or you feel as though you found people who understand you, then you keep coming back for more. And so we get this in business, we get this in marketing, we get it in relationships as well. Of course, in relationships, we're always talking about feelings. But I think so often it gets left out of the bedroom, out of sex. Right. We talk about, like, how to touch somebody, the words to say to them, how to approach them. But what underpins almost all of that is the emotional piece. Right. So if you're dealing with loss of libido or maybe you've lost an interest in sex, maybe you're dealing with differentials and desire. Maybe you have struggles to get in the mood. Maybe you don't know how to seduce someone. If we begin with the underlying feelings they're looking to experience, I think it becomes so much easier than figuring out like, do I put my hand here? Should I put 20% pressure, 30% pressure, forget the physical and start with the emotional. And that's what we're going to talk about today. Your core erotic feeling and your chorotic feeling is the emotion tha...