107. David's Story: Freedom On The Other Side Of Apprehension

Welcome to episode #107!

In this episode, Matt and Braden talk with Pure Freedom Journey leader, David, as he shares about how he made the choice to get help with his battle with porn and masturbation, even though he was crippled with apprehension.

Blessings on the other side of awkward
It can be really hard to admit we have a problem with porn, but it is even harder to admit our problem to others. We have a wide range of reasons to hide, like shame, guilt, embarrassment, fear of exposure, or pride. When we make a choice to tell others as God leads us, the healing in our lives can really move forward. God heals us in community, but when we avoid following His direction, we become more and more isolated. Even though it can feel really awkward, once we choose to get over that, we will start to move in a journey of freedom.

Admitting our justifications
Part of why we don't have community, is because we justify our own behavior to avoid being transparent with others. When we admit to ourselves that we are justifying, we can start to address the reasons and give them to God.

We have a purpose!
One of the beautiful ways that God works is that as He heals us, our story helps and encourages others. When we are stuck in the midst of addiction and shame, we often lose purpose and become self-focused to the detriment of others. Our life and story matter and even though it may seem dark now, God wants to bring freedom not only for us, but for others as well. How amazing could it be to see our life that once seemed bleak become a rallying cry for others!

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BRADEN HAFNER
Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 13 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

MATT CLINE
Matt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honoured to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.