How to Express your Witch in a Modern World that Doesn't Approve

On the Secret Witch Show today, Nicole is speaking to one of the biggest fears of the Secret Witch: how to express your Witch in a modern world that doesn’t approve. Nicole explores why magical women often struggle with the Witch Wound fear of being outcast from the world - and why they often avoid being their medicine because of that - as well as how going into the wild and leaning into love yourself deeper can liberate your shadow fear of approval.

In this episode Nicole explores what’s possible when you begin to embody your Witch Queen for yourself before beginning to express her into the world, why there’s no “quick fix” for the Witch, and why women need the Remedy of the Feminine to liberate the old stories that they have around being a Good Girl (or even rebelling against being approved of), so you can live as your full expression of your Witch.

 

What You’ll Learn from this Episode:

 

• The Secret Witch often feels the fear of approval, from not only her Old Stories, but also from the Old Stories of generations that have been held in her body’s cells as truth; if this is you, these stories are ready for liberation

• Often, this will have Nicole’s magical women arrive at this podcast feeling burned out and burdened from having run around looking after everyone else’s needs, rather than tending to her own true needs, and she will be exhausted.

• It is important as a Witch to plug yourself back into to Mama Earth - the Witch’s natural habitat - in order to restore your vital life force energy. The more you embody this for yourself, the more your nervous system will feel at ease, so that you can begin to be in the work of liberating some of these old shadowy fears about approval

• Often Nicole’s women are deeply sensitive - and sometimes Neurodivergent - yet rarely they see this - or their Witchy capacity to hold and love the darkness in life - as a gift, and instead try to fit into a modern world that just doesn’t suit them and their uniqueness. The work of this path is to come to see your sensitivity and Witchiness as a deep gift and medicine for others who experience the same.

• Our Maidens learned we were victims to the modern world; and this often, innocently, keeps them on the drama triangle - yet, we simply missed our initiation into our power - and that rise into adulthood can be reclaimed via walking the path of embodying your Feminine Mystery and your Witch Queen

• The deep invitation here is to return to unconditional love - and reclaim your power from love; where is the lack of approval really coming from? Is it your own story - and where does that need love?

 

Resources and things that we spoke about:

 

• Existential Kink - Carolyn Elliot

• Secret Witch Circle Group

• Karpman’s Drama Triangle

 

Thank you for listening, we’d love to know what comes alive for you in this week’s episode, so please let us know!

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Thank you,

 

Nicole xox