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When was the last time you experienced excitement - a sense of being thrilled or feeling very enthusiastic?

Particularly in the early stages of the relationship you are likely to frequently have a sense of excitement. Excitement often feeds on novelty, eagerness, the unknown  and  anticipation.  Excitement is also associated with feeling good.

When we are excited we feel mobilised in our body: the heart might be beating faster, we might have butterflies in the stomach or sweaty palms. We are in a state of physical arousal, that is not too dissimilar from feelings associated with anxiety. In the context of dating often excitement can be experienced as anxiety.

We can create a feeling of excitement by using visualisation: for example imagine what it feels like to surprise your partner with a gift.

Excitement often emerges when you do something that takes you away from your routine. You can consider situations or activities that are different from what you normally do.
 

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