142. Why Kids Don't Need You To Be Perfect — Just Present (Part 1)

We all want to raise kids that are secure, resilient and confident.  We also want to experience genuine connection with our kids and step-kids.  But stepfamily dynamics can be confusing, overwhelming and frustrating — especially when it comes to parenting.  It might feel like all the complexity tends to rob you of that connection you're looking for.

If you've ever wondered how to handle tough situations with your kids or step-kids, we're here to help.  And the good news is that you don't have to be a perfect parent or step-parent to make a big difference - even in tough situations…

…you simply have to be present in a few very specific ways.

In this episode, we're excited to share an amazing resource called 'The 6 Needs of Every Child' by Jeffery and Amy Olrick.  We'll be exploring key insights around child development and the importance of secure attachment.

Drawing on psychological research, neuroscience as well as our own experiences, we'll share the most important relational needs for human growth that form the foundation of thriving parent-child connections.    

You'll Discover:

• How to develop security, resilience and confidence in your kids - and deepen your connection with them
• The relevance of secure attachment and practical ways to meet the most important needs of your kids and step-kids  

Resources from this Episode:

• Book:  The 6 Needs of Every Child by Jeffrey and Amy Olrick
• Episode 112:  3 Dangerous Dynamics that can Destroy Co-Parenting - and Hurt the Kids
• Episode 113:  How to Respond When Being Disregarded, Devalued or Dismissed by your Former Spouse

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