I have a little problem with the use of the phrase 'bitch' which is ( a term used to undermine a powerful woman) in a self-help book geared towards women Moving on... This book is for every woman

I have a little problem with the use of the phrase 'bitch' which is ( a term used to undermine a powerful woman) in a self-help book geared towards women

Moving on...

This book is for every woman who can't figure out how men think and why they do alot of the stupid things that they do :-)

If you have a partner of 20 years and you don't know if he loves you, this book is for you

If your man doesn't pay any attention to you and his kids , this book is for you

Why?

Because we need to acknowledge the fact that some men act like they are 2 years old , and unfortunately there are some women who are falling in love with these men.So i summarized the key points for you ladies :-)

Key points:

Don't be clingy or needy

Don't abandon your hobbies

Have confidence

Don't settle for less than what you deserve(ever)

Don't lose sight of who you were before him

Be independent

Appreciate your man

With that being said , this book is for females who want to outplay their men in mind games.Just think of all the time wasted when both genders are trying to be one step ahead of the other .

So in conclusion bitches play games , women DON'T.

Shelves: psychology-nonfiction, feminism-and-womens-issues, social-politics-and-sociology

I had to change my view about and rating of this book.

I was not only skeptical but thought it to be a terribly depressing read that taught women how to con their way into a relationship.

But much like life, relationships are also in part a game. They live off of some mystery and subliminal and playful power struggle that fuels the fire relationships run on.

The book makes no mention of it as far as I remember but there are many other types of these books explaining the distinct differences in brain chemistry and (evolutionary) biology (which isn't as evolved as one might hope...) between men and women, why we do what we do and what we want.

You can hate reality but that won't change it. So if your relationships all go and end the same way, ask yourself if maybe you'd like to at least try a different approach next time.

I agree with a lot of the things Sherry describes in this book, but she missed the huge fact that all humans have these traits portrayed here as solely for men. What I mean is that women are just the same, but most of them were raised in defiance with the true nature of how a human being truly is. We are all free at birth and then they enslave us one way or another; from our parents, siblings, friends, lovers, society in general and especially, the government. So, I encourage men to read this book as well, but changing the roles in their heads. What is said for men, counts also for women and what is said for women, counts also for men. Don’t let anyone tame you. Stay wild.

Oh! And what are all these manipulation techniques?! A real, grown up man doesn’t fall for, nor deserve these childish games.

Note: don't judge any book by its title!

(B)abe (I)n (T)otal (C)control of (H)herself.

Bitch (noun) :A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion-be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards- only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.

Great book /guid about having independence,

Strong, lovely, clever, successful, glittery and shiny personality.

Happiness is not about being anyone else, it is about being yourself, it is about living your own life, it is about being accepted by others just because of who you are.