There's nothing stopping you from feeling joy and love – Nothing in life has joy or love attached to it. Both are feeling that are generated within yourself. The more you practice finding reasons to be happy the more simplistic life is.
If you don't know what you love, practice self love till you love yourself – You focus on becoming the best version of you so when something or someone comes along you can love them the way you love yourself.
Do three times what you think is healthy and you'll never look back – Right when you think you’ve tripled down on what you love, do it again then then triple the practice till you forgot why you started practicing to begin with.
Focusing on the feeling of success creates more opportunities to feel it – What attract what we feel and what we are, not what we want. The more happiness, joy, and success we feel NOW determines how much we attract in the future. LOA
You can't love something too much. Love till you're willing to fight for it – When you love something you’ll do anything for it. This includes yourself. You must generate enough love to fight for your right to live happy.