Maybe the lesson is learning how to accept it. Truly – Everything is a lesson if you choose to learn from it. Just like how you accepted you have a bad habit, you’ve got to accept it happened and there’s nothing that could be different.
It's not about the fall, it's about the feeling of falling – The feeling we have when were growing is the feeling we seek as we focus on our happiness. It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey.
How you get back up is how you do everything from here on out – Fall down 7 times, get up 8. The way you process the past, your troubles, the hurt ankle is the exact same way you recover when you’re doing something new.
Is this happening to me? Or for me? – It’s rare that something is happening to us. 95% of things are happening for us. These are all tools and opportunities to improve our quality of life forever. Everything happens for us.
What you can articulate is your understanding. Be it till you see it – You can only speak what you know. Until you take on new understandings its important to practice the habits of a healthy person till you see how healthy you are.