We are either winning or we are learning – There is no such thing as failure. Things may not be working out perfectly, but you are learning what doesn’t work. Know what doesn’t work is equally as important as the feeling of winning.
Curiosity positions you to look at the information objectively – Asking yourself “what makes that happen” or, “what’s motivating them to say that” help remove emotions and not react. You’re programming yourself to respond.
All events were meant for you to learn from – If it crosses your path, its for you. It’s not yours and its simply meant for you to study. Who, what, when, where, why, how, or ignore.
Learning IS Winning – It’s far more important that we’re learning. If we’re constituently winning, then we’re just practicing what we’re good at. No new information. The first win is the repercussion of all the learning prior.
Objective thinking overrides emotions and allows you to process effectively – What is it if there are no emotions applied? Is it just a word? An accident? An opinion? All things are simply information, and a response isn’t mandatory.