117: Boundaries & The Holidays

What do you want your holidays to look like, feel like this year?

Ultimately how we do anything is how we do everything-so if you don't love how your holidays feel, we have to ask-"where else is that showing up in your life?" Where have you given your power away and ultimately believe that you don't have choice.

When we forget that we have the power of choice-we live our lives un-intentionally. And days becomes weeks, weeks become years and years become our whole entire life! I believe we've got to get serious about this! So while this episode is using the holiday season as an opportunity to get clear on what actually matters to you, we can use what I'm sharing here and apply it to our entire life.

Are you choices of what you are giving your time, energy and resources to made consciously? When you say YES to something, is that actually what you want? When you say NO to something, it that actually what you want? Are you giving your life force to things that make you feel alive?

This episode is one that you will want to come back to again and again as I am sharing basic principles and ideas about how to create a life by design.

We get caught up in believing it's the big flashy moments that we grow, but it's everything in between-it's the small daily choices, habits, decisions and conversations that produce the most fruit.

I too am reminding myself that much of what I (we) do is wildly unimportant. Using our discernment to align to what makes us feel alive is powerful and places us right back at the helm of our leadership.

Listen to Learn:

• The 3 mindsets you need to ditch in order to empower yourself and feel alive this holiday season and beyond.
• Two powerful questions you can sit with to create a holiday season that feels aligned for you.
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"I was standing in the toy aisle at Target, crying, because ultimately I felt as if I didn't have the power of choice." ~Krista Resnick

"We have to start getting serious about the fact that our entire life will pass us by if we are not intentional about it." ~Krista Resnick

"We cannot do everything." ~Krista Resnick

"Most people have this invisible obligation to things, situations, and people, pushing us to believe that ultimately, we don't have a choice." ~Krista Resnick

LINKS MENTIONED

Healthy Holidays Workshop

Healthy Holidays Workbook

REPLAY-Holiday Triggers & Trip Ups