Becoming an Irreplaceable Husband with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 302

Episode 302 is about the ins and outs of marriage, its complex reality, and other possible reasons why it could fail.

Failed marriages are not always about cheating. There are so many areas that need to be addressed more than infidelity. Your spouse starts to consider leaving you when you do not know how to communicate with each other, address their needs, support their dreams and show the same reciprocal commitment required for marriage to work.

Marriage is not just about two people living together. When you’re married, you don’t have a housemate, you have a partner that you are responsible for — someone you need to build trust and respect with.

In this special episode, my wife (Meredith) and I become vulnerable and honest about our marriage, including its downturn — in hopes of helping every man out there to transform into their best selves and finally become The Irreplaceable Husband that they need to be. Yes, brother, you have to take it all on you!

Most men have this fear of being vulnerable and getting hurt, and that is why we created and transformed our podcast into something even more committed and bold, to help men express their feelings and needs in a more honest way without feeling inferior. Follow us at https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:03:36 Ian’s Fear: His wife never getting over the resentment from who he used to be

00:04:59 Great Partnership = Great Marriage

00:06:51 Moving Past Resentment to Instill Good Communication

00:08:26 Meredith & Ian’s Story

00:10:36 Wanting to Be the Provider

00:11:41 Making Money Your Identity Could Destroy You

00:12:24 Angles of Avoidance

00:14:58 Creating A Curriculum for Yourself

00:16:58 What It Means to Be Replaced

00:19:34 Take It All On You

00:21:53 The Feeling of Stability

00:23:58 Rushing into Relationships and Feeling Obligated

00:28:33 Creating Time for Just You and Your Spouse

00:29:34 Seeking Approval Externally

00:34:20 Change Before She Pulls the Switch

00:36:24 Postpartum Depression & Anxiety

00:38:31 Men Having the Fear to be Vulnerable

00:38:42 Feminine Flow Energy

00:42:07 The Fear of Loving Too Much

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