Ep.134 - I said "I do"

Soul Diggers! I said, “I do!” 

Fresh off my honeymoon, in this episode I share all about my self-love marriage ceremony and what an amazing impact it has had on me.  It was a profound experience!

Let’s rewind for a  second - in the past, I was a classic people pleaser and in previous relationships, I’ve given too much of myself. There was a fear of not being loved - but why did I need people to love me? Because I didn’t love myself fully!!

I now feel grateful for my past relationships and even grateful for the pain that I felt when those relationships broke down. The universe is so clever, isn’t it? It’s almost like when I start to abandon myself or get lost in a relationship, it strips me of the things that I thought I knew, and continually reminds me to “come back to self.”

I previously felt that having a self-love marriage ceremony wasn’t for me. I thought it meant that I would be confusing the universe in some way or that I wasn’t really calling in my partner,  but on my 39th birthday I felt inspired to fully commit to myself. I made a deep commitment in front of my soul sisters and vowed to fully accept and love myself unconditionally. I allowed myself to surrender and fully see what the universe had been showing me all along  - I am the one! Wow, have I felt some shifts!

I share all about the ceremony and how magical it was to be witnessed by so many of my sisters. Friends that I hadn’t seen for years, who just happened to be in Bali and available at the right time!  I talk about how it felt difficult to receive the huge amount of love that was being given to me,  (can anyone resonate?) but I surrendered and allowed myself to receive the magic. I know that the more love I receive, the more love I can give,  and the more impact I can have. It’s a memory that will be etched into my soul forever.

So Soul Diggers, I invite you to be an embodiment of your own desires. When you fully love yourself nobody else can add or take away from how you feel - you are already whole. You don’t need a marriage ceremony just a simple ritual, maybe on a full or new moon. Write down your vows to yourself, read them every morning and really feel them in your body. 

Keep digging into your soul - that is where the answers are.

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