What Being in the Lifestyle Taught Me with Favour Obasi-ike

In this episode, Favour Obasi-ike joins me to talk about life before, during and after being in an open relationship and in the lifestyle.

 

Favour Obasi-ike is a self-driven entrepreneur, business owner, self-taught drummer, and musical artist who has blended entertainment business from a professional and creative angle to navigate through my career in an innovative & disruptive way.

 

He is the Founder of Work & PLAY Entertainment where the primary goal is to inspire, entertain, and educate the boundless value of problem-solving solutions with innovative products using marketing & advertising implementation strategies with applied SEO (Search Engine Optimization). 

 

He also hosts the “We Don’t PLAY” podcast, which is available on over 14 podcast platforms with over tens of thousands of downloads and 300+ episodes. 

 

We talk about the world of open relationships and the swinging lifestyle. He shares his experiences of performance anxiety, being watched by his partner, and playing with other couples outside of clubs. Favour emphasizes the importance of knowing love languages and communicating effectively, as well as having conversations about sex before entering a relationship.

 

He also addresses the stigma society has around the lifestyle and the misconception that it desensitizes people to traditional sexual relationships. Favour shares what he learned about himself the most through these experiences.

 

We get into: 

• [0:55] How Favour's business and interests come into play

• [3:46] Getting introduced to the lifestyle and into an open relationship

• [6:40] Having performance anxiety for the first time ever

• [8:55] His first experience being watched by his partner

• [9:30] Was he ever jealous seeing his partner with someone else?

• [12:00] Why knowing love languages and communicating properly is so important

• [13:25] Did they ever play outside the clubs?

• [16:25] How he reacted after that relationship ended

• [17:45] Cross-playing with the other sex

• [20:30] Are conversations about sex important to have before getting in a relationship?

• [24:55] Does being in the lifestyle desensitize people to enjoying sexual relationships in a traditional way

• [26:50] What he learned about himself the most through these experiences

• [28:55] How many people he has fucked in one night

• [31:00] The stigma society has around it

• [34:10] How being in the lifestyle is like having exercise 

 

Connect with Favour

• All-in-one link: https://zaap.bio/flaevbeatz 

• Website: https://playinc.online 

• SEO Marketing Masterclass: https://quiet-morning-907.myflodesk.com 

 

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