636 - Why Women's Sex Drive Goes Down and How to Get it Back Up with Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith

Dr. Adam Lane Smith called in to talk all about why women’s sex drive goes down and how to get it back up. When do female sex drive problems show up? Why do they show up? And, what can you do about it? Tune in to hear all the details including how intimacy issues are attached to attachment issues, the classic signs that there is an issue to begin with, how men can open up to women without looking weak, how and why opening up will get a woman’s sex drive back up, how oxytocin plays a role and what to do about it, how avoidant and anxious attachments are created, the anxious and avoidant dance, how and why having kids negatively effects a woman’s sex drive, the four steps a man can use to be open to wife without feeling pathetic, how and why the solution focused approach works, what specifically you can ask women for that will make her hornier, why a lot of therapists don’t deal with attachment issues and why they should, why people sabotage and how they can stop it, how the belief that you’re not good enough makes people sabotage inn every area of their lives and how to stop it plus a whole lot more.

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