Don't Complain About Doing Stuff That You Would Hope To Keep Doing After Divorce!

Many women complain about the "emotional labor" of picking the kids' extracurriculars or choosing their doctors or organizing and decorating for holidays... but then BEG to do this stuff after divorce because they actually really want to be in charge of it. "Know thyself," a key precept of the DPM show, is discussed in depth vis a vis this issue. Included: why complaining about shit you would actually want to do after divorce is a bad decision, why it's okay to be in charge of stuff if you admit you want to be, and, as a special PS, the only analogous example I could think of about when men act this way about marriage vs divorce.

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