"...my mother is a person who normally comes across as pretty together you'd meet her and probably be struck by her warm personality her slightly loud voice and Australian and a sense of humor to match she's known for her skills and problem-solving and managing people and his sensitivity to the plight of others has led her to be willing to lay down her own needs and help pretty much anyone who crosses her path together we left Australia when I was 11 years old so we could make a new life in Asia she'd been a single parent ever since she left my dad before I was a year old but I always felt provided for if a little lonely as the only child of a hard-working mother she was a high school teacher in Adelaide a coastal city in South Australia when she decided to relocate us to Hong Kong where she had been offered a job that paid well enough to make our lives look completely different we'd always struggled to make ends meet and I was up for the adventure I have a memory from as I was growing mother talking about how lonely she was she didn't have boyfriends since I was about eight or nine and I can remember feeling vaguely sorry that she couldn't have this thing that she wanted so badly one day about 10 years ago my mother found herself in a situation that I could barely believe she let herself get into she had followed her desire for a loving relationship so far down a rabbit hole that she barely managed to get herself out of it and back to say she and I have always been different so while I could understand her desire to find someone to love I had trouble understanding why she made the choices she made fool me twice is a chance for me to understand my mother's motive and piece together what I can figure out about why she was so easily LED on by a con artist I reasoned that there has to be something to figure out here how could a woman who has her head screwed on in so many aspects of her life be so blinded by the manipulation of one man the room was dark so it opened my eyes and wait for them to adjust the man in the bed next to me was snoring lightly and I hadn't been able to sleep it must have been for am slowly so I wouldn't wake I slipped out of bed and sat on the edge everything inside me was screaming I had to get out now but I knew that if I woke him up it would be all over strangely it was in the dark that I was able to see it all clearly this man had been manipulating me conning me out of my money and I'd fallen for it Hook Line & Sinker for me twice shame on me I did my best to keep my breathing calms I'm quiet as he lay there I could smell the alcohol raking on his breath it was comforting in a way I knew that alcohol makes people sleep more deeply..."
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