1491 第一次和美国人约会，到底谁买单（下）

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Any guy can spoil you with materialistic things, but the right man can do way more than just that... He can spoil you with understanding, listening, honesty, loyalty, affection, communication, and he can spoil you with happiness.

任何男人都可以用物质的东西宠你，但是对的人能做的更多。他可以用理解你、聆听你、忠诚不二、爱还有良好的沟通来宠你，他能让妳非常幸福。

1.Spoil 宠

2.Loyalty 忠诚

3.Affection 爱

Hello, you're listening to Fly With Lily and right beside me is Omar and we are going to try to go deep on dating questions, dating etiquette. Sounds good, Lily. Yes. Okay, so we have a couple of questions from our listeners. They really, really want to know if they are out with an American guy, who should pay? Well, society has gotten a lot more progressive as of late, and so I've heard a lot of stories about dates being split by both parties. However, I'm a bit traditional, and I know a lot of the people I hang out with and associate with are very traditional, and this goes for guys and girls. Generally speaking, I think the man should pay, at least for the first couple of dates. And then, I guess, as time moves on, then if they decide they want to start splitting things, that's up to them. But I'm a firm believer that, especially early on, the man should be the one who just picks up the check without question. Do you ever think about why? Well, I think that usually, I mean historically speaking, men have been the ones to generally ask the women out. And if the men are the ones asking them out and planning the date, well then they're kind of the ones that should be paying for the date. But like I said, times do change, but this is one where I feel pretty strongly that it should just be the man paying for things to start with.

你好，你正在听 Fly With Lily，我旁边是 Omar，我们将尝试深入探讨约会问题和约会礼仪。听起来不错，莉莉。是的。好的，我们的听众有几个问题。他们真的非常想知道如果他们和一个美国人出去，谁应该付钱？好吧，最近社会进步了很多，所以我听到了很多关于双方分开买单约会的故事。然而，我有点传统，我知道很多和我一起出去玩和交往的人都非常传统，这对男孩和女孩都适用。一般来说，我认为男人应该付钱，至少在前几次约会是这样。然后，我想，随着时间的推移，如果他们决定要开始拆分，那取决于他们。但我坚信，尤其是在早期，男人应该是毫无疑问地主动买单的人。你有没有想过为什么？好吧，我认为通常，我的意思是从历史上看，男性通常是邀请女性出去的人。如果男人是约他们出去并计划约会的人，那么他们就是应该为约会买单的人。但就像我说的，时代确实在变，但这是我强烈认为一开始就应该由男人买单。

4.Etiquette 礼仪

5.Progressive 进步

6.Split 分开

7.Traditional 传统的

8.Firm believer 坚信

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