The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 2

Discover the hidden tactics abusers use to maintain economic control over their former partners after separation in Part 2 of our "Post-Separation Economic Power and Control" episode. Learn about  the components of the post-separation economic power and control wheel that sheds light on these often overlooked aspects of abuse and find out what you can do about it. 

 

By exploring real-life examples, we will unveil the manipulative behaviours that can occur with the banking system, emptying joint accounts and leaving victims burdened with debt, and other tactics abusers employ to maintain power over their victims' financial stability.

 

But fear not! This episode isn't just about exposing these tactics—it also arms you with practical advice and strategies to protect yourself. By listening to this episode, you'll gain invaluable knowledge to navigate the challenging terrain of post-separation abuse and empower yourself with the tools to overcome these obstacles.

 

If you're ready to take charge of your financial future and break free from the cycle of abuse, don't miss out on this episode. Tune in now and equip yourself with the insights you need to reclaim your economic power and control. It is important to always seek independent legal advice

 

Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different. 

 

Please note that this episode contains depictions of domestic violence that some people may find disturbing. If you are experiencing Domestic Violence please call 1800 Respect or if you are in danger please call 000.

 

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DOCUMENT WE DISCUSS IN THIS EPISODE

Post Separation Abuse Wheel Developed  by Jenn Glinskii, University of Glasgow (2021)

 

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 * What are some examples of abuse in the banking system?

• How can individuals protect themselves from financial abuse in a separation?

• Is it advisable for someone experiencing post-separation abuse to change banks?

• Why is it recommended for individuals to take some money for themselves during a separation?

• How does financial control contribute to the cycle of abuse?

• What are the consequences of being financially dependent on an abusive ex-partner?

• How can withholding money and assets affect the process of property settlement?

• How do abusers manipulate financial resources to maintain control over their victims?

• How does the court system play a role in enabling post-separation economic abuse?

• What actions can individuals take to break free from financial abuse and regain control over their finances?

• What role does legal advice play in dealing with post-separation economic power and control?

• How can observing abusive behaviours objectively help individuals cope with post-separation abuse?

• Are there any consequences or legal actions for coercive control and financial abuse?

• What strategy can someone overwhelmed by the paperwork and proceedings of a divorce case adopt to make it more manageable?

• How important is it to document instances of post-separation abuse early on in the process, even if they may not seem significant at the time?

• What are some examples of coercion and threats that can be used by one party during a divorce?

• How can someone protect themselves from financial control and manipulation, such as threats to stop paying child support or living expenses if they seek legal assistance?

• Are there any emergency arrangements or support options available for individuals facing immediate financial difficulties during a divorce?

• What is the likelihood of a parent losing custody of their children during a divorce, especially if they have been a good enough parent and haven't been violent towards the children?

• Can you share an example or story that demonstrates how the court prioritises the best interests of the children and understands the challenges faced by parents?

• How can stalking and harassment be addressed in cases of post-separation abuse, and what role can evidence, such as photos or videos, play in documenting such behaviour?

• What practical measures can someone take to protect themselves and their children when facing intimidation, harassment, and joint property damage from their ex-partner?

• How does coercive control manifest itself in post-separation abuse, and why is it often done through subtle, minor actions?

 

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

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Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.