Monogamy vs Polyamory OPPOSING VIEWS debate | Ellen and Andrew Fisher with Amelia & Matt

In this fiery conversation with my husband and friends Amelia and Matt, we discuss and debate the meaning and value of sex, marriage, and monogamous vs. polyamorous relationships. 

Amelia and Matt recently celebrated their love in a non traditional marriage ceremony after dating for 5 years. They practice consensual non monogamy and value freedom, self expression and evolution as the foundation of their relationship. They share polar opposite life experiences to me and my husband Andrew, who have only ever been with each other intimately and waited until we were married to have sex. We’ve been together for over 20 years, started dating when we were 15 and 16 years old and our marriage vows are based in a life long commitment of growth and unconditional love, through the easy times and the hard times.

We get into our differing perspectives on love and if having multiple sexual partners (either at the same time or throughout our lives) is best for society, raising children, and ourselves as individuals. 

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We discuss topics such as:

• problems within monogamy vs polyamory for relationships, children, and society 
• The purpose and meaning of sex - is it sacred, solely for pleasure, etc?
• If our biology tells us anything about our optimal design for relationships
• Boundaries within non monogamy and polyamory.
• Should we give into all our impulses?
• What is the most supportive type of family environment for raising children?
• Is there a “one size fits all” for sex and relationships?

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