Leaving Toxic Relationships Safely
Chantal Contorines
The Divorce Hub: High Conflict Divorce Coach and Specialist •CDC Divorce Coach •CDC Transitions and Recovery Coach
Join us in this powerful podcast episode as we delve into the topic of leaving toxic relationships safely. In a conversation with Chantal, a Certified Divorce Coach and High Conflict Divorce Expert (@thedivorcehub),
we explore the invaluable wisdom she brings from her extensive experience in dealing with individuals trapped in abusive, manipulative, and vindictive relationships.
Toxic relationships can affect anyone, regardless of gender, and have the potential to be the most destructive events in our lives.
This episode focuses on the vital first step of identifying the warning signs of a toxic relationship, such as emotional abuse, control, manipulation, and physical violence. Acknowledging the toxicity is an essential catalyst for change.
We discuss the value of establishing a network of friends and family members as well as support groups that can offer the moral support and direction required during this trying time.
Chantal offers advice on putting together a safety plan, including finding a secure place to stay, gathering important papers, and setting up covert communication channels to guarantee a smooth and secure breakup.
We talk about the value of keeping track of evidence like text messages, emails, and even pictures of physical injuries. Documenting instances of abuse or toxic behaviour can be crucial for legal reasons. The topic of getting professional assistance is also covered, emphasizing the importance of speaking with therapists or counsellors who have experience with domestic violence or toxic relationships. In accordance with your particular situation, they can provide advice, support, and coping mechanisms.
We shed light on the significance of local resources, providing information on organizations and helplines that offer assistance to individuals in abusive relationships. These resources can provide invaluable support, advice, and resources to help you through this challenging time.
Developing an exit strategy is a critical step in leaving a toxic relationship safely. We explore the elements of creating a plan that ensures your safety, including choosing the optimal time to leave when the toxic person is not present, or having someone accompany you during the process.
Maintaining your privacy and security is vital during this transition. We discuss practical steps such as changing passwords, securing your social media profiles, and being cautious about sharing your plans or location with individuals who may inadvertently relay the information to your toxic partner.
In cases where safety is a major concern, obtaining a restraining order may be necessary. We encourage seeking legal advice or consulting with a lawyer to explore options and understand the process of acquiring a restraining order to enforce boundaries and protect you from further harm.
Lastly, we emphasize the importance of self-care. Leaving a toxic relationship can be emotionally challenging, and we provide insights on practising self-care, engaging in activities that bring joy, and prioritizing your overall well-being. Joining a support group can also be immensely helpful, connecting you with others who have experienced similar journeys.
Tune in to this enlightening podcast episode as we equip you with the knowledge and resources needed to leave a toxic relationship safely and embark on a path of healing and personal growth.
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