Adam starts off this episode by reading a very powerful story that he heard the other day and absolutely loved. It speaks of a father who, after a long day, gets angry at his son for misbehaving and sends him straight to bed. The father then goes to bed and feels bad for being so harsh, and then he has this dream that impacts him deeply. We discuss the reasons why we need to let our kids be kids and avoid getting after them all the time for little things that aren’t as big of a deal as they seem. Whether they’re 5 or 15, we can’t treat them like they’re 50.
The story 0:45
You have to learn to simplify 9:00
Being more present with your kids through date night and adult time 15:35
A moment to teach 19:20
An example to finish with 23:50
“I realized that my goals were causing me to want the kids to act like adults so I had the space to think about the goals, and then it was just like getting slapped in the head. The kids don’t care about our personal family balance sheet. They don’t care about really where we live, they just want us and they wanna be kids and they wanna be seen as kids.” 9:30
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