You Need To Stop Giving a F*ck - अब nice guy बनना बंद करो

Being a nice person doesn't mean that you're actually nice. It means that you are programmed to hide your flaws in order to be validated and loved by other people. Approval seeking behavior is deeply rooted in one's childhood and that's why in order to overcome this unconscious programming, you must increase your self awareness and understand what caused you to put others' need above yours.