"The Assignment" of Love: Understanding Partner Selection for Personal Growth

Have you ever wondered why you're drawn to certain romantic partners, even when they often trigger emotional pain? The answer to this question can transform your relationships into profound journeys of healing and growth, but it requires understanding what I like to call 'the assignment.'

Many times, unmet childhood needs shape your choices in partners, leading you to select individuals who echo the tendencies of your parents or caregivers. This process is an opportunity to heal old wounds and finally find the contentment and fulfillment you missed early in life. Essentially, you recreate the same energetic patterns that once hurt you, providing an opportunity for healing.

Realizing that relationships are opportunities for healing can empower you to communicate your emotions without blaming them completely on your partner. Alison Armstrong has developed a powerful framework known as The Noble Healing Method*, which couples can utilize to address each other's past and present hurts and move toward a healthier, more harmonious relationship.

This short podcast is an introduction to becoming a more conscious couple, embracing your journey of healing, and ultimately shining your love and light in the world.

*Alison's Noble Healing Framework