#1453 - “People Pleasers” Have You Experienced This?

Are you constantly walking on eggshells, bending backwards to keep everyone happy? In this episode,  hosts Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros talk about the pervasive habit of people-pleasing, tracing its roots back to childhood fears and insecurities, and discussing its profound impact on our adult lives. They dive into the labyrinth of societal pressures and norms, examining the potency of peer pressure and the shackles of societal expectations. They also discuss the tightrope between asserting one's needs and maintaining flexibility, and the importance of standing your ground without losing sight of common ground. They also talk about the courage it takes to defy the norm of people-pleasing and the necessity of being comfortable with the discomfort it brings.

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Show notes: 
[2:28] Be afraid of losing yourself
[4:58] Conditioned to people-please
[11:8] Social pressure
[13:49] Kim thanks Kevin for going above and beyond in helping launch the Peaceful Productivity podcast
[14:54] Do what you want to do
[18:41] Servant leadership
[24:22] Honoring your goal takes courage
[27:48] Outro