Building Trust: Recognizing the Signs of Commitment

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Welcome to today's episode of The Relationship Maze, where Tom and Angela dive deep into the concept of trust. In this episode, they discuss the challenges of establishing trust in the early stages of a relationship, especially in the age of online dating. From questions about commitment to the fear of being abandoned, Tom and Angela explore the insecurities and self-doubts that often arise. They also shed light on the different attachment styles that can influence one's level of trust and the need for reassurance. Additionally, they explore the different types of trust, including blind trust and the importance of being cautious in trusting others. Join us as we navigate the intricate path of trust in relationships on this episode of The Relationship Maze.

00:00:51 Insecurity in early relationships revolves around trust.
00:05:58 Lack of trust related to internal insecurities.
00:09:19 Separating anxieties, insecurities in relationships, trust.
00:12:24 Questions on honesty, consistency, and trust in friendships; overcoming past pain and anxiety in relationships.
00:14:21 New relationships are risky but rewarding.
00:17:54 Unclear self-doubt and distrust in relationships.
00:23:21 Trust issues emerge in relationships causing conflict.
00:24:42 Helping people explore and understand their relationships.
00:00:51 In new relationships, trust is often questioned. Can I rely on them? Can they fulfill my expectations? Trust is key.
00:05:58 The lack of trust is often related to internal factors and attachment styles, leading to insecurity and seeking reassurance or exhibiting avoidant behavior.
00:09:19 Separating personal insecurities from partner's intentions is crucial. Assess behavior objectively to determine trustworthiness and commitment.
00:12:24 It's important to know if someone treats their friends well and if they are consistent. Trust can be challenging after past hurts and betrayals, but being open to relationships means accepting the possibility of pain.
00:14:21 Starting a new relationship is risky due to the vulnerability and potential for hurt, but not pursuing relationships has its own drawbacks.
00:17:54 The text discusses self-doubt, distrust, and the struggle to find resolution in relationships.
00:23:21 Lack of trust affects relationships, even in the long term. Couples therapy is often sought out for this issue.
00:24:42 The course explores self-exploration and understanding partners in relationships.

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