In this episode, with female dating coach Marni “The Wing Girl”, Marni shares her ultimate formula for talking to girls called “OSA”, which stands for observation, share, and ask.
We talk about how men are skeptical when it getting dating advice from a woman because most women don’t know how to explain what they’re really looking for in a man, how to affect a woman’s decision making and get her to change her mind about what she says she does and doesn’t want, and how to talk to a girl using OSA: observation, share, and ask. Using this formula makes talking girls for the first time easier for you to do and more interesting for her.
Here is how to use OSA: Observation. You open the conversation by telling her what he finds interesting. Share. You tell her why you made that observation and tell her more about yourself. Ask. You ask her an open-ended question which she then responds to and you use that to continue the conversation.
Practice using OSA by noticing everything around you and making associations that result in “shares”. This will get you into the habit of expanding your observations and making better conversations.
Put yourself at a higher value position by approaching and talking women as if you already know them.
The traits that get women to overlook negative traits are teasing, challenging, leading and being protective.
You can start a conversation with a woman and keep it going for as long as you want by using word associations and sharing.
Practice using word associations and sharing by using index cards with random items on them, and come up with an association and a story about each one. Do this three times for each item to get really good.
The best way to keep a woman engaged in conversation is by being really interested in her and her stories.
What do women really want? Women want a man who is comfortable in his own skin and goes after what he wants. Also good to have are intelligence, drive, safety, security, and comfort.
I also share a personal story called “The Flirty Best Friend” where I was able to avoid the friend zone with girls by flirting with them.
Listen to this podcast again if you need to, take some notes, and use what you learn to start a conversation with a woman and keep it going for as long as both you and her like.
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If you have a question when it comes to talking to girls or dating in general, send it to me: tripp@trippadvice.com, or call the Tripp Advice Hotline at 323-432-0025 and leave me a message.
To your success,
Tripp
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