In this interview with master connector and motivational coach James Swanwick, James reveals how to be more social with people, how to get over your fear of approaching beautiful women and high status people, how to talk to a girl you like or anyone you want to connect with, and how to become the most interesting person in the room.
We talk about how women are attracted to men who are good at socializing with people, are plugged into the social scene, know how to start conversations with strangers, have good people skills, how to tell their stories, and exactly how you can develop these social skills to make yourself more attractive to women, and to more people in general.
When you meet people ask them about themselves and what they’re passionate about, and then think about ways that you can help them or people you can introduce them to. A book he highly recommends for learning how to do this is “Never Eat Lunch Alone”.
The main thing most people think about everyday is themselves, their lives, their goals, and their worries. When you encourage someone to open up and share more about themselves, you become very interesting to them. And when you can encourage everyone in the room to share more of themselves to everybody else, you become the most interesting person in the room.
To tell your stories in a way that connects the other person to you, tell it with your emotions and add intricate details to create pictures in the other person’s mind. Women find good story tellers captivating.
To get over your fear of approaching a pretty girl you see, stop thinking about it, don’t try to impress her, and apply the three second rule. After three seconds go up to her and say something, anything.
And this is how to socialize and connect with people that you want to know.
Listen to this podcast again if you need to, take some notes, and use what you learn to expand your social network by helping the people that you run into.
To learn more about socializing, connecting with people, and building a strong support network, visit James Swanwick at jamesswanwick.com, or visit him on his YouTube and iTunes podcast channels.
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If you have a question when it comes to talking to girls or dating in general, send it to me: tripp@trippadvice.com, or call the Tripp Advice Hotline at 323-432-0025 and leave me a message.
To your success,
Tripp
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Resources:
James’s website: jamesswanwick.com
James’s podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-james-swanwick-show/id840906924?mt=2
James’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/jamesswanwick1
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