Flipping Your Drama Triangles to Empowerment

Discover how to evolve from the roles of victim, rescuer and villain inside the Drama Triangle to creator, coach and challenger inside the Winner's Triangle. Plus how to upgrade to the Empowerment Mindset where you shift focus from scarcity to possibilities, reactive to proactive, ensuring every decision aligns with your goals and visions.

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Listen to the full episode to hear:

• How to evolve from the roles of victim, rescuer and villain to creator, coach and challenger
• Hard work, guess work and framework approaches to empowerment
• Secret to redefining how you perceive and use your perfectionist traits

Step-by-Step Evolving Drama Triangle Process

1. Identify Your Triangle Role: Recognize when you're in the victim, rescuer or persecutor role within the Drama Triangle.
2. Embrace the Winner's Triangle: Actively move towards becoming a creator, coach or challenger.
3. Develop Self-Sovereignty: Start making choices that reflect your true self and living from an inside out approach.
4. Implement Active Learning: Stop accumulating and start implementing.
5. Focus on What You Want: Concentrate on your desires instead of fears or limitations.
6. Open Up to Possibilities: Embrace uncertainty and see it as a playground of opportunities.

 

EPSISODE 182 TIMESTAMPS:

00:00-Introduction

01:53-Drama Triangle Explained

02:07-One Small Action You Can Take Right Now

02:31-The Winner's Triangle: A New Perspective

03:35-Visualizing the Winner's Triangle: Become a Creator

04:05-Embracing Self Sovereignty and Overcoming Inadequacy

04:59-Questions to Embody the Creator Role in the Empowerment Triangle

06:23-Shifting Focus from Scarcity to Possibilities

07:07-Rescue Ranger to Caring Coach

08:08-Empowering Everyone through the Coach Approach

09:30-Example of Hero turning into a Coach

10:00-Evolving From Villain to Challenger

11:59-What All Winner's Triangles Have In Common

12:39-Agreements vs Expectations

13:13-Perfectionism Rewiring Made Easy 

14:21-Upcoming Episode Teaser: Overcoming Over-Giving in Perfectionists