The Queer Christian: Navigating Faith, Church and the Bible
Religion & Spirituality:Christianity
14. Finding Your Perfect Match: What Does Modern Research Say? What Does the Bible Say?
In this episode: I discuss with Grandma Clair three things that predict successful relationships and marriages.
From The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/
· The Magic Relationship Ratio (used in Podcast) https://youtu.be/Xw9SE315GtA
· Four horsemen https://youtu.be/1o30Ps-_8is
· “Bids” https://www.gottman.com/blog/turn-toward-instead-of-away/
· Singles newsletter https://www.gottman.com/singles-newsletter/
12 Year Study of same-sex relationships:
· https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-12-year-study/
· https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-makes-same-sex-relationships-succeed-or-fail/
Smiling
· https://marriagecounselingblog.com/marriage-counseling/6-of-the-most-interesting-research-studies-about-love-and-marriage/
· https://youtu.be/jp42DM0x1Fc
· http://tiny.cc/Smile2
· http://tiny.cc/Smile3
· http://tiny.cc/Smile4
· http://tiny.cc/Smile5
First date questions: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/first-date-questions/
Marriages from online dating: https://www.science.org/content/article/online-dating-really-can-lead-love
Psychopathy (Don’t Marry)
· https://www.mha-em.org/im-looking-for/mental-health-knowledge-base/conditions/127-psychopathy-vs-sociopathy
· https://www.bikellaw.com/blog/37/is-your-husband-a-psychopath/
Gratitude
· http://tiny.cc/Thanks1
· http://tiny.cc/Thanks2
The Power of saying: “thank you” in marriages
· https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/10/151021170814.htm
· https://www.chicagotribune.com/columns/heidi-stevens/ct-gratitude-marital-happiness-balancing-act-heidi-stevens-20151028-column.html
Top things couples fight about
https://www.inc.com/melanie-curtin/the-10-things-every-couple-will-fight-about-at-some-point.html
Scripture used in this episode
· Proverbs 15: 30
· Galatians 5: 22-23
· Matthew 25: 40
· Ephesians 4: 29
· 1 Peter 3: 10
· 1 Thessalonians 5: 11
#Marriage #Dating #Christian #Research #Love
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