Silence in the Playroom: Navigating Child-Centered Play Therapy with a Selectively Mute Child

In this episode, I tackle a nuanced situation shared by Nell from Maryland, a play therapist working with an 11-year-old client who does not speak during therapy sessions. Despite not being diagnosed as selectively mute, the child exhibits behaviors akin to selective mutism, engaging in play but not verbal communication.

 

While the child's parents are fixated on verbalization as the primary goal, I offer a crucial reframing. I also discuss the child's interaction with toys, particularly stuffed animals, to communicate and express themselves, highlighting the significant progress this represents.

 

My advice to Nell and all child-centered play therapists is twofold: first, we must clearly set expectations with parents from the start, helping them understand the stages, timelines, and principles of this therapeutic approach. Second, we must remain unwavering in our commitment to those principles, respectfully yet firmly guiding parents to trust the process and our clinical expertise. Forcing verbalization would undermine the child-led nature that allows for organic healing.

 

This discussion reminds us of the transformative power of patience, understanding, and adherence to the child-centered play therapy model.

 

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References:

Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley.

VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press.

Landreth, G. L. (2002). Play therapy: The art of the relationship (2nd ed.). Brunner-Routledge.

Bratton, S. C., Landreth, G. L., Kellam, T., & Blackard, S. R. (2006). Child parent relationship therapy (CPRT) treatment manual: A 10-session filial therapy model for training parents. Routledge/Taylor & Francis Group.

Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.