Exploring the Man Behind the Sex Shop: AJ Paps on Spirituality & Relationships

Do you want to bring toys into the bedroom but you don't want to emasculate your man? Perhaps you don’t even know where to start when it comes to opening this conversation up with him?

You all LOVED our first podcast so who better to bring back to the show than Sex Toy Expert, AJ Paps.

AJ, founder of Missionary to Madame, Australia’s premier online adult boutique, not only serves as a beacon of sexual empowerment but also extends his expertise globally - fostering enhanced intimacy, relationships, and dating dynamics through his TikTok content reaching over 500k+ followers.

In today’s SPICY episode, we’re talking all things sex toys, spirituality, personal development and relationships. We dive deep into the relationship between self and faith and how these things affect our experiences in and out of the bedroom. We also discuss how to take men OUT OF their performance mentality during sex and allow it to shift into a more beautiful experience for both partners. It ended up being a therapy session for the both of us and AJ was nearly moved to tears. 

In this episode, you'll hear:

🦋 AJ’s relationship status, why he is choosing to be single, and what “building your kingdom” actually means

🦋  How to integrate sex toys into the bedroom without triggering feelings of rejection in your partner,

🦋 Why fake moaning is ruining your sex life and how to communicate authentically instead,

🦋 The most COMMON problem AJ hears from women in his adult stores,

 ..and much more

Want more of AJ? Listen to our episode on Unlocking the Male Perspective on Pleasure & Desire.

Find AJ on Instagram @ajpapadatos and TikTok @ajpaps

You can find his sex toy store here and his podcast here.

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