Perfectionism, Self-Criticism and the Path to Self-Compassion with Psychologist James Kirby

Perfectionism, self-criticism, self-hatred. As an athlete, academic, or even a parent, finding the path to self-compassion can be easily interrupted. Psychologist James Kirby helps break down the nuances of these feelings and their profound impacts on mental health and well-being. 

Sonya and James talk about different types of self-criticism, the importance of self-compassion in goal-setting and relationships, and practical strategies for fostering self-compassion in daily life. Plus, learn how your relationships are affected. 

Here are a few key takeaways:
- There are two types of self-criticism - inadequate and hostile
- Self-compassion can help sustain goals by aiding recovery from setbacks
- Compassion is an active process of understanding and alleviating suffering
- Shame strongly impacts relationships
- Recognizing and appreciating unseen acts of compassion from partners can foster gratitude and positivity in relationships

LINKS:
- Learn more about James and his work
- Nurturing self compassion with Dr. Diana Hill
- How self-compassion is NOT letting yourself off the hook
- Navigating perfectionism with Thom Curran