Ep. 452 Funeral Planning, After-Death Care, and Healthy Grief with Jokotifa Alaye

Learn how planning ahead for after-death care can help loved ones with grief and loss.

My guest Jokotifa Alaye is a licensed funeral professional and NEDA certified end-of-life doula with a focus on grief. She created Mourning Space to fill the gaps in education and support that society requires for healthy grieving. She discusses the importance of funeral planning as a gift for loved ones, finding a funeral director or celebrant who can help carry out your wishes, and how to foster empowered grieving. Learn more at her website:

mourningspace.com

YouTube Channel

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This episode includes:

• Jokotifa’s path to becoming a funeral director and death doula
• Why she focuses on empowered grieving through Mourning Space
• Why deathcare providers need better training about grief
• Why rituals at the end of life are important
• What to do if a loved one refuses a funeral
• How and why to plan your own funeral in advance
• Each state and country has unique laws about funerals and disposition
• What hospice providers should know about the removal process to support the family after death
• How to have conversations with loved ones about funeral preferences

Links mentioned in this episode:

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