Ask A Man 29 April '24: 'My 20 year-old child doesn't know I'm her father'

Anonymous says back in his matric year in 2004 he had sexual relations with a student teacher at his school. Anonymous says it happened once and she left anonymous’ school for another one. They ran into each other 8 years later in 2012, when the teacher told anonymous that she had actually fallen pregnant and they have a child together. The child is now about 20 years old and still doesn't know anonymous as their father. The teacher was married when she had relations with anonymous and her husband thinks he's the father. Anonymous says the lady now wants to have another child with him secretly.